This is me
I am Shan Berriman
Born with dreams nestled in my heart and a flame dancing in my belly, I carry within me the two profound words: “You Matter.” These words took root many moons ago, but as life wove its intricate tapestry, my dreams faced storms that smothered the fire within. Yet, just as the dawn breaks after the darkest night, wind found its way back into the sails of my aspirations, igniting that inner spark once more—only for life to present its next challenge. The clamor of the world often drowned out my dreams, leaving me feeling unfulfilled, frustrated, and yearning for the life I envisioned. In my quest for happiness and fulfillment, I sought solace outside myself, searching for someone to hold my hand on this journey. It was only when I summoned the courage to heed the soft, persistent voice within me—the voice that has always known the path back to my true self—that I embarked on a wondrous journey of self-discovery, evolving into the best version of who I was born to be. I awoke to the truth that I already possessed all I needed to live an authentic, real, raw, messy, and beautiful life. My happiness and fulfillment rested solely in my hands! As the courageous Jane “Nightbirde” Marczewski wisely stated, “You can’t wait until life isn't hard anymore before you decide to be happy.”
A few fun facts about me
I am a cherished daughter of The King, a devoted wife to an extraordinary husband, and a proud momma to two beautiful daughters, aged 22 and 18. I wear many hats: a Transformational Life Coach, a daughter, a sister, but above all, I possess a heart overflowing with love for others. My greatest joy lies in witnessing others succeed and find happiness. I thrive in creating safe spaces where people can support one another and walk alongside each other on their journeys. Community projects fill my heart with song! I dream of a world where more people build longer tables rather than higher walls; there is always room at my table for one more. It is because “You Matter” that I hold a special place in my heart for the underdog, the overlooked, and those beautiful souls who don’t fit into the conventional mold—after all, what is “normal” anyway?
It has taken me five decades to delve into the depths of my being, and what a joyful journey it has been! I adore crafting beautiful spaces and items, indulging in macro photography, reading, and spending cherished moments with family and friends. I find profound joy in worshipping my King, immersing myself in nature, taking leisurely strolls along the beach, and engaging in community projects. Pilates has blossomed into a newfound passion.
Yet, I am not without my struggles; technology often frustrates me, earning me the family nickname “Pushy Pushy” for my tendency to push buttons when all else fails. I once found myself striving to please others, seeking their approval even at my own expense. Now, I recognize my worthiness to prioritize myself—not out of selfishness, but so that I can fill my cup and overflow kindness into the lives of others. I also struggled to embrace rest, often pushing forward relentlessly. Now, I understand the vital importance of rest for clearing my mind and rejuvenating my body. It’s incredible how many creative ideas spring forth from a rested soul.
Are you perhaps feeling like I did? Going through the motions of living a frustrated, unfulfilled existence?
Do you long to breathe life into the hopes and dreams nestled in your heart? Are you unsure where to begin on your self-discovery journey? Would you welcome clarity on how simple life can be when you embrace your true self? Would you like a cheerleader to encourage you as you bravely take the next step? Are you weary of doubt and fear holding you back?
If you find yourself answering yes to any of these questions and are curious about who you could be while living as the best version of yourself, I would be honored to chat with you, for YOU MATTER, and YOU MATTER to me.
