From the time we are born, we are looked after by someone else for our every need. We are taught by their thoughts and their ideas and by the way they do things. We are born into families that may have family traditions, who may do things a certain way and these things become familiar and the norm for us.
Our families are influenced by what and who our grandparents were and how they did things and influenced by our parents and our extended family. As these traditions and certain way of doings things are moulded to us, they become familiar, and we start feeling comfortable and “normal” doing them.
Some family’s may have a high divorce rate in their family; this may be accepted as “normal” for the next generation to get divorced. Some family’s may battle with financial stresses, and this way of living gets moulded to the next generation, and it is accepted to be “their lot in life”.
I would like to encourage you, that you have the ability to change the narrative for your life and in turn for your family’s life. None of us can change the cards that we were dealt at birth, but we have the ability to change the order of those cards, and we can get rid of the cards that aren’t serving us well to create space for some new cards. At any stage of your life, you can decide that what and how you have been living your life, from a place of habit and feeling comfortable with things being “moulded” to you, are no longer serving you and you can change the way you do things. This awareness normally comes from a place of you knowing yourself on a deep level and knowing your worth. When you don’t know who and whose you are and you don’t feel worthy of anything more than how you are living your life currently, this is where you will feel stuck because this is all you will expect from life.
I would love to offer you an invitation, to step out of the life that you feel is no longer serving you, out into freedom and into the life you so deserve, because you are worthy.
We all do our best until we know better and when we know better, we can do better. Would you like to learn how to do better? If you feel it is time for change and time to unstick yourself, please reach out, I would love to have a chat to you.
You are destined for greatness and the best is yet to come, all it takes is for you to be aware of wanting to do things differently, to get a different answer or you can choose to keep repeating things that you haven’t repaired.